Wednesday, December 9, 2015

2015 Family Update Open Christmas Letter

Another year passes, and we enjoy another 365 days witnessing God’s hand in our lives. We feel particularly grateful for you, our family and friends who season our lives with love, concern, kindness, faith, and positive moments together. Thank you for caring enough to read about us.

This season reminds us of the truth that God is our Father, Jesus Christ is His only begotten son in the flesh –our Savior, and all of us can be part of a happy eternal family together for eternity. We hope these truths help all of us to move forward in faith, overcoming our weaknesses, changing for the better, and finding greater unity with God and our fellowmen.

As we update you on our family experiences over the last 12 months, we would like to give special thanks for your prayers through some of our growth opportunities. Below are our 15 most memorable moments and achievements from 2015.

15. We got a state park all to ourselves for an entire day! Apparently, Snow Canyon was not so named because of its white, cool, climate, but after Lorenzo Snow. In August, we survived camping in 113 degree heat with only one park ranger and a campsite host hiding in their trailers, watching for buzzards and other predators to circle over our heat-stroked corpses. Their hopes were in vain due to water fights and copious iced beverages. Uncle Tom and Aunt Mary Lou provided an awesome respite after the camp to shower and enjoy great company.

14. All of the children earned sushi (their favorite reward) this year from their efforts at school, each earning high remarks for their grade. More importantly, their teachers touted their citizenship and kindness to their fellow students. 

13. Magdalyn skipped 7th grade beginner band and earned 5th chair flute in the intermediate band class at her school. She earned two flutes from her diligent practice and continues to enjoy music.

12. Tim discovered a new talent this summer. We purchased a membership to Momentum Climbing Gym and spent about three days a week developing our climbing strength and overcoming any concerns with falling onto mats from 15 feet above ground. By the end of the summer he was bouldering adult V4 climbs. Coaches invited him to join their junior team that competes nationally, but who can afford four grand per kid for just one hobby? It was lots of fun while it lasted.

11. We hosted two adventurous family reunions this year, one during the summer and one at Thanksgiving, with generally successful results! The food was excellent!

10. Susanna started learning piano and guitar this year, and continues to optimistically bring joy to the household!

9. In the realm of personal improvement, after years of diligent practice and study, David was granted the international honor and rank of Si Di (brother) in Shaolin Chuan Fa Wu Ling Xing. This has involved not only the study of the martial application of Kung Fu, (some prefer the term Wushu) but also the internal healing aspects of the arts and studies in Tai Chi Chuan. The process only took five concussions, a dislocated jaw, three broken toes, a bruised liver, and a fair amount of sweat. In this discipline, there are twenty-seven levels of mastery in six general mastery-level ranks {brother, older brother, younger uncle, father, older uncle, grandfather} which begin after the traditional belt/sash system of white, yellow, orange, green, green advanced, blue, purple, red, brown, brown advanced, and black. It is approximately the equivalent of a 2nd Dan in other martial arts combined with Asian medical training—as this Chinese art emphasizes how one should be able to heal what damage is inflicted; a view not of self-defense as much as one of harmony and maintaining balance in the world.

8. David also completed all of his PhD. requirements, including comprehensive exams, research presentations, and proposal defenses, except for his dissertation. He is now ABD (all but dissertation).

7. My first year of beekeeping with Maggie resulted in a harvest of about 100 pounds of honey. Unfortunately, a wind storm blew over three of our four hives at the end of the season, and the midnight salvage operation resulted in many stings (which we avoided during the rest of the year). It is possible that we lost of some of the hives. We will not know until next spring.

6. This year we saw many excellent musicals, symphonies, operas, and concerts. This means we also endured some that were less than impressive (I’m looking at you Oklahoma and Wizarding Halloween). Our favorite musicals were Tuacahn’s When You Wish and Hale Center Theater’s Big Fish. Our favorite opera was The Pearl Fishers with The Rake’s Progress coming in a close second. Utah Symphony’s Sci-fi Spectacular shocked us with its entertainment value, brilliant interpretations, and flawless performance.

5. We finished putting in grass and sprinklers in our front yard!

4. Some friends invited us down to a ranch in Meadow, Utah, where we enjoyed an amazing vacation playing games, riding horses, playing spotlight, relaxing in hot pots, 4 wheeling, and hiking through lava tubes. If you are still reading, you must actually like us (or really dislike us and are looking for justification…)

3. After twenty years on immune-suppressants for Crohn’s disease and other accumulated illnesses, my immune system finally gave up this year. My six specialists worked together wonderfully to handle my many physical complications. Unfortunately, to keep me around, I had to switch from steroids, immune-suppressants, and NSAIDs to biologics. The first biologic did not take and caused me to make sure David knew my wishes (closed casket and who I want at the grave dedication!), update my will and power of attorney documents and so forth. The second biologic successfully mitigated the Crohn’s symptoms, but unfortunately has some significant side effects. First, my body cannot fight off the weakest of colds/flu viruses. Second, it warns that side effects may include increased risk of cancer, bleeding from all orifices, instant death, and emotional instability, to name a few. Fortunately, David followed promptings to hound me until I went to one of my specialists thus protecting me from seeing one of these illnesses bring about my youthful (just pretend I’m not middle-aged) expiration. The specialist found a tumor. The initial diagnosis is cancer, (though it may be pre-cancer). Since we caught it so early, surgery and a couple months of recovery is all that the doctors believe will be required. That will happen in a few weeks.

2. Melissa, Maggie, and Tim led our family history effort, with David and Ami providing support as we found well over six hundred ordinances needing completion among our relatives on my mother-in-law’s side. We indexed over a thousand names, and completed about three hundred ordinances with Maggie’s help.


1.  Amirrah’s baptism into the Savior’s restored church by her father and the subsequent bestowal of the Holy Ghost by her beloved father, uncles, and grandfather was the highlight of the year. 

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